When baby was born and turned out to be a girl I was overjoyed. I have a great relationship with my nieces. I like girls they are more communicative. More cute. More fun. Less likely to punch you and force you to run round a field for hours kicking balls. Don’t get me wrong I love football. But as a spectator sport.
So I got a girl. And I was overjoyed. She can be daddy’s girl. We can have that special bond that fathers and daughters have. But today I saw a cute 18 year old walking down the street. I might be happily married but ….I AM MAN.
I cant help myself looking. And thinking. And imagining. And that’s when it hit me. Oh my god. In 15/16 years time, dirty old men, just like me, will be thinking their lustful thoughts about MY little girl. MY precious little daughter.
Unless she grows up to be a minger. Or a lesbian. Now there’s a thought ……might have to start introducing her to dungarees.
Don’t think about what will happen after 15/16 year… just enjoy the present moment with your small baby. This is the memorable time so enjoy it.